I have been married for 3 years. I feel awful for you you sound sweet and loving. I was physically sick. But that title i have not not earned, i was too deceived to believe his words of love & faithfulness. What I don’t get is if he’s not married and cares about her why dose he not break off the marriage? Although sex has never been a problem between us. I also found a journal entry that he wrote after I confronted the cheating and he said in the journal entry he feels less of a man because he vowed to me that he would never do the things all of the other men have done to me ( ex’s ) and he just kept writing that he feels so much less of a man and I honestly hated reading that because I don’t want the man that I love feeling that way but then again I want him to feel the pain i’m in. When we talk about it he seems completely open and honest no strange body language or voice changes or anything. The past month or two he has been hanging out with his friends more and longer. we are together for over 8 yrs with two kids now. been married for 7years, 1year ago i find out that my husband been cheated on me coz i found out picture of the girl of his bedroom and vedio of the girl taking shower to his own bathroom that time i was 9 months pregnant to my 2ndchild and i was on my own country and he was on overseas work, and he tell it wasnt his girl it was his friend i dont believe because he got all the pictures and video to his hardisc he just keep telling me that he did not cheat on me… before that why i was thinking that he cheated on me because he change a lot, he became more angry, he tried to avoid an conversetion to me.. and saying we need to save money bla bla bla.. but he never been like that before….but i want to save my mirrage but i dont know coz sexually we never been making love for 1 and 1/2 year now.. i just dont know what to do, one more he spent more time in the computer than to us…, My husband of 4 years said to me yesterday out of the blue that im boring in bed im like an old woman and that “i pushed him to other women” then quickly changed his answer to “your gonna push me to”…i asked him how can we be intimate if i go to bed EVERY night alone. then the spuse would not have to cheat. He is using you any way he can. I happened to find out recently that someone I know knows her and her history and said that my husband really wasn’t doing anything wrong and also that there is no way this woman is interested in him. When he would come home, i would get the hug and I love you, then he would sleep, watch tv, or read a car magazine. Hi Mr. Tommy, me and my husband has been married for almost 2 years, we’re a young couple with a 10 month old and a baby boy on the way. 6) Two weeks ago, I found numerous pictures of women in his “photos” on his iPhone to which he responded those women are not a threat. I screamed at him why? 1.Why do you guys cheat if you love us O so much 2. and why deny when we find out? That means that if they know something, they no longer know how to act around you. The bottom line is if you trust your gut, you know what’s going on…if things are right or not. The road to mistrust started there and a year later I still don’t trust them. 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